So to the parents here or those thinking about having children i want to ask you a question. What would you do to/for your kid if they were doing bad in a class but they showed you time and time again that they are doing everything in their power to do better but it is just not working? would you dish out punishment in an attempt to have them scared in to knowing what they don't? would you constantly ask how you could help and not give them any further stress and grief by not giving them punishment...