| TiongHwi | January 18, 2014 03:58 PM | Quote:
Originally Posted by JmMajestic
(Post 1628585)
relations like i don't want to get too attached to people anymore since one day they'll disappear or i will. also how to get over my crush on terrah and few other people for the same reason
can help but over think, just the way i am | poor you. so you have been suffering from these just as i do. you are right..people will disappear on you, and vice versa..
the way to so-called "get over" all these..is to face it. running away, will not solve anything..
1) when you face it..it will come randomly at times. in those times..jus let it come at you. it might hurt at that moment. but when it has hit you enough times..the impact dilutes..it may even reach a point when the dilution becomes enough to just have a friendship, to the point where it is not enough to even confess.
2) when you run away..you will be fooled into thinking that you are safe. in those times, when it comes at you, it will come like a knockout punch. yes, a knockout punch, ALWAYS, when it happens. the knockout punch effect will be for as long as you live or as long as you choose to run away.. |