|April 15, 2012||#34|
Join Date: Mar 2012
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I voted for other in this case. I have had seen a long term marriage work, (my parent's) and one that has failed, (my own). People look at marriage as a union of love but traditionally and historically it has not. Also people think that a marriage just happens. It is a lot of work and compromised. My parents went through a lot of problems and worked them out. Myself, well at the end, I was given a list of things that I was supposed to change in myself but it was stuff things that were really just an excuse. The way I see it, if you don't understand what marriage is truly is then just do not bother.
|April 15, 2012||#35|
Join Date: Mar 2012
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I voted for the 3rd option.
|April 15, 2012||#36|
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Well, personally, I don't care what you do as long as you're not forcing something on others.
I personally would consider myself a failure in at least one way should I get a divorce, but I also don't really believe in marriage as a state-sanctioned document anyway, so whatever.
|April 15, 2012||#37|
It depends on the situation my parents divorced a couple months ago and its way better like this.
No more fight and yelling and its like realy relaxing now i life whit my father.
So yea i think divorcing is mostly for the best.
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|April 15, 2012||#38|
Join Date: Jun 2011
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There are many reasons why people get married. Whatever that reason maybe, a divorce always hard to bear especially if children are involved.
Life is contradicting, I would not want a couple to divorce each other because their children as well as their family will suffer but I would not want two people to be unhappily married either.
|April 21, 2012||#39|
Divorce is tricky because it ruins families and homes but sometimes its the best course of action having to people who live together who no longer feel for each, will start breeding hate causing conflict and sometimes it is called for, its a horrible thing but sometimes the best course of action.
|April 21, 2012||#40|
Join Date: Aug 2011
Location: Wales (UK)
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Personally I think divorce is something that should be allowed, but not encouraged. Love isn't forever after all. Couples who stay married for their entire lives truly are amazing and I respect that; but people change with time. However, I could never see myself geting a divorce as I think, and am naive enough to believe, that every problem can be solved as arguments are a part of every relationship.Knowing me, I probably wouldn't give up on my partner until the very end, but that's just me. Everyone's different and we all have our own different experiences with divorced families which shape our opinions.
The main thing to remember is to do whatever will make you the happiest in the long term.