Divorce

[Momoka]

I voted for it.

Sometimes it's for the best. :>

[ultimateanimelover101]

Option #3 is what i voted for :P..

[dragnorok]

People change.

[Lipot]

I voted for other in this case. I have had seen a long term marriage work, (my parent's) and one that has failed, (my own). People look at marriage as a union of love but traditionally and historically it has not. Also people think that a marriage just happens. It is a lot of work and compromised. My parents went through a lot of problems and worked them out. Myself, well at the end, I was given a list of things that I was supposed to change in myself but it was stuff things that were really just an excuse. The way I see it, if you don't understand what marriage is truly is then just do not bother.

[Behemith]

I voted for the 3rd option.

[Vermilion]

Originally Posted by TrollJelly

Divorce is just another way of saying "Please, gtfo and take half your stuff with you, I get to keep the other half plus alot of your money."

Not if you get a prenup~



Well, personally, I don't care what you do as long as you're not forcing something on others.

I personally would consider myself a failure in at least one way should I get a divorce, but I also don't really believe in marriage as a state-sanctioned document anyway, so whatever.

[ZephyrNL]

It depends on the situation my parents divorced a couple months ago and its way better like this.
No more fight and yelling and its like realy relaxing now i life whit my father.
So yea i think divorcing is mostly for the best.

[skypiercer]

There are many reasons why people get married. Whatever that reason maybe, a divorce always hard to bear especially if children are involved.

Life is contradicting, I would not want a couple to divorce each other because their children as well as their family will suffer but I would not want two people to be unhappily married either.

[Bluestar6000]

Divorce is tricky because it ruins families and homes but sometimes its the best course of action having to people who live together who no longer feel for each, will start breeding hate causing conflict and sometimes it is called for, its a horrible thing but sometimes the best course of action.

[Nonky]

Originally Posted by Drickz

I wouldn't want my future children to live with divorced parents like I did. I wouldn't fight over them or anything like that, only if my divorcé didn't take care of them properly. I'd rather have them choose as they want because it's always the children who get stuck inbetween. If they want to live with me I'm fine with that but if they don't, I'll let them come by whenever. It's about the children and not yourself... divorce if you want to but think about the children if you have any. Where should I spend my christmas, birthday, summer, other holidays, etc. It's just a fucking mess.

To see two of the most loved people fight whenever they see eachother and have the only memory of them together a memory where you sat together, crying with your siblings outside of the house, is not a good memory.

I'll say it again, think about the children... it just fucks it all up too much

True. If you have dependents its a completely different situation, but I couldn't imagine "Staying together for the kids" being a good compramise either. It could just be dragging out something already gone and could be more painful for the children long term.

Personally I think divorce is something that should be allowed, but not encouraged. Love isn't forever after all. Couples who stay married for their entire lives truly are amazing and I respect that; but people change with time. However, I could never see myself geting a divorce as I think, and am naive enough to believe, that every problem can be solved as arguments are a part of every relationship.Knowing me, I probably wouldn't give up on my partner until the very end, but that's just me. Everyone's different and we all have our own different experiences with divorced families which shape our opinions.
The main thing to remember is to do whatever will make you the happiest in the long term.